"When you're young and good-looking, you've got to behave. But when you're old, you can get away with murder."~ Julie Newmar
Want to feel great about how you look today? Ok. That's easy.
Here's the recipe. 3 little steps.
1. Don't compare yourself with anyone else. Ever. There's no point. You're either going to feel 'better than' or 'less than,' and neither one of those perspectives is healthy or, again, has any point.
2. Focus only on your best colors and design lines, and expressing your aesthetic starting with those guidelines. If you do this you'll look your healthiest, your most visually 'balanced,' and you'll KNOW you do- with your aesthetic sensibility respected, you can't help but feel great about how you look.
3. Never worry about what others think of you. I guess this is a sort of flip side to not comparing yourself to others. It's not your job to 'please' others with your appearance- it's your job to present yourself in what you feel is your best light, and enjoy the potential for self expression.
That's it. End of thought process.
We're not 'less' or 'more' than anyone else. Everyone has their own, unique and perfect beauty- inside and out. When we respect that, and find our own, it can't help but show.